but how do i receive tags from you guys after that.. :(
today was so unproductive! i spent practically the whole day in front of my laptop trading on pet society forums. -__-" really bad.
and then played isketch and won! highest record of mine, ever. there are people who could score 103 points though. i dont know how to ever achieve that!
i enjoyed playing competitively with suz and eileen, pearl you are missed!
SATURDAY
i enjoyed yesterday's interview-service yesterday. the church should have more interviews for preachings!!! they keep me awake and they put things in a real perspective that is less theory-based and more impressionable. i thought sun ho's interview was quite good and the one with the australian pastor (I CANNOT FIND HIS NAME ANYWHERE WHAT IS THIS) was really cute and touching.
i was fully awake and alert throughout the whole interview even though i had little sleep. These are some of the points i have jotted down.
Have children early. They build your character and keep you young. They humble you and have ways of speaking truths that no other adults can.
Looking out for other people/ spouse’s problems makes you able to get out of your own problems
Be always prepared to go an extra mile and forgive (your spouse). The bible asks to go the extra mile only because He wants us to be mentally and spiritually prepared for the hard times that you and your spouse could go through
Regarding physical attraction, looks are only secondary. When one has lost the reproductive functions or sexual appeal (in breast cancers, prostrate cancer, etc), it is only the friendship between the 2 that can hold them together
i was moved to tears when he was telling us how he treats his wife. foreword: not exact words
"because my wife is worthy to me, i have the need to buy her flowers every week. even when i am poor, i would pray to be able to have that money to buy her flowers the next week."
"loving your wife is an investment. your children will learn how to treat their parents well, and would be able to find good spouses for themselves when they learn from their parents"
"man and woman sometimes have different interpretations of a text. i read chronically while my wife semantically *dont get the meaning* and we find a point to share our understandings of what we read from the bible and then to learn"
you see, i dont think i have the most perfect parents and the model parenting/ spousing examples to learn from. they quarrel every so often and my dad abuses my mum verbally. there was once when my dad threw a whole plate of food at my mum, and missed. but i was in the centre when it all happened and it is really painful, to cook for someone you love and to have him throwing the food and plate as if to hurt and to injure. although the case has been resolved, i dont think i could be as strong as my mother to not retaliate or end the whole marriage.
ok it's alittle too much to have flowers every week, the thought of someone going through the lengths, even to pray so earnestly, makes me cry like a wimp. ahhh i wish i have flowers every week too.
and the idea of having a husband who interests you in the bible, to share and to edify one another everyday without fail , would be a really lovely thing.
you could catch past weeks' sermons for free here! vid links
we went out with E348 after the service! all to see zoe and her boyfriend in action hahaha. :) was funny to play Bloop with them..im amazed at the number of games they know. and im so thankful to elicia to take a CG MRT picture for me! thanks!! this could have been the last cg mrt picture of w429 together. and i am saddened that i dressed up so much (ie makeup and tube dress) and had little pictures!! all of them thought i was going DATING after service, which is so not the case. OH what would i do without debbie. -_-
FRIDAY
went home early to see chloe today. :) she's definitely not so emotionally attached to me but at least she recognises me. i let her play her new play-doh, with lucky hanging around beside her waiting to luck out at the nice-smelling play-doh. eyeing me for a moment, chloe decided to put the play-doh in her mouth! i swiftly snatched the dough from her fingers and she decided to do the major cry. the kind where she crinkles her face in silence and prepares for the loud wails. argghhhhH!! horrid!
still, i like scooping up little crying kids like that. so cute. only when im not dying for sleep, that is.
THURSDAY
went to meet the css choir comm for a BBQ dinner. arghh had a hard time choosing white/blue clothes for the Once In A Blue Moon outing which wasnt that Blue Moon coz cuijing and xiaohui and xingfong wasnt around. seriously, in retrospect, i dont think i deserve to be in that committee. i was vying with enci for the Quarter Mistress position and i think i won by a small margin. anyway i think the choir members are really nice people coz i said i didnt have enough money to want to spend on the BBQ and they insisted on feeding me. thank you. :)
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