as one gets older, one gets wiser.
wiser= not so emo, not so critical of oneself, being more confident.
hopefully.
though i have met very old people, whom i still think, are none the wiser as they are at 12 years old (ie nicholas).
anyway things i have learnt in life. everyone has different tolerance for different things. and it is always impossible to change their mindset.
perhaps only marketing people can do it well.
yeah i mean i have low tolerance for insults of my intelligence, being called dummie stupid etc etc, even though a slip of tongue, or not meant as hurtful, does make me ouch.
however, knowing this is my weakness, ill just try to cope with it.
and then there are people with low tolerance for criticism. since i always dish out comments like the know-it-all that i am, i am like the thorn in their flesh at times. that i will always have to remind myself.
this is a nonsensical (really?) post and will serve to remind me to not be critical or judgemental of myself.
today i met up with the 05S75 people for dinner.
can i tell you how blessed i am. generous people like jiawen and jaryl and vickland shared some of their food with me! and then debbie treat me bread when we met at bugis in the day. but i will have to pay her back somehow haha. plus we, jiawen jaryl hongian and i, went to eskibar (suuper cold!) and then i sipped their drinks and it was paid for as well. then homeclub was free coz hongian got us in through some promotional thing like showing a picture on the handphone.
oh and that week weisheng treat me dinner at kopitiam and paid for my library fines...!
:) havent gone night-seesighting-- to a bar or club to drink/dance-- since early 2007.
ahhh i am a cheapoooo i dont care. will find a way to return the favour somehow. janet remembers gratitude very well ok.
somehow im glad im not in a BGR. haha. just counting my blessings before i forget them. i hope i will mature by leaps and bounds before i get into one!
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