Hello! new blogskin, new introduction to me!!
-just in case you dont know me well enough yet-
1. i am FRANK
sometimes i am not janet, most times i am frank. unless you're my enemy or someone i dont care about, then i will be frank to you.
i will not hide things from you; i'll tell you the way it is, no matter how hurtful it is. and i expect that from people who know me well enough as well. i rather u tell me that u dont like this/ that rather than go through all the grudges behind backs. i rather we respect each others likes and dislikes, instead of pressuring one to be against the individual that he/she has grown to become.
for example, if you like branded stuff, i respect. if you hate lizards, i shall again respect. if i hate eating something i dun wish to, it is as simple as giving me that respect that you would have command.
also, if you dont like me doing something, i am open and am willing to thrash it out. if a friendship is one where everyone is FORCED to do something, i think this is not a mature one already.
2. i am OLD-FASHIONED
i am sentimental. the past is strongly imprinted in my mind. i dont know how sometimes i can remember things so well, but it's just me.
i dont like the way i sound on msn. plus msn hates me. HENCE, phone is the way to go~
like most people, i like my calls to be answered and replied if it was missed. if one were to not reply my missed call, the message would be this: i dont want to talk to you. also, why must one call the person again?? since i am not confident that i will get a response. hence, i believe it is only fair that the other party's missed calls to me should go unanswered too.
i like old things more than new things. some like to call me retro. i like the song "make new friends, but keep the old. one is silver and the other is gold". and sometimes gold is really nicer than silver.
3. i am too righteous for my own good
maybe i feel more righteous than God. well at least i know i will stand up for friends in need or when theyre bullied.
i believe in customers rights. and i like to argue and feel right.
4. i am SENSITIVE
i cry in sad movies. i cry in happy movies. i cry for nothing sometimes. i cry on public transport.
stick and stones will not hurt me, but words can break my heart. especially like stupid (when used in an offensive way) and flat, self-centered, etc. i'll have you know the dozen of times i cried majorly because of the first 2 words but i'll leave it to another day.
it's bad that im super sensitive, coz i get hurt easily. but i do recognise that being sensitive has its good sides as well. sensitive is being thoughtful and understanding and comprehending the feeling of the other.
maybe im not sensitive all the time, but most times i am. however i do think telling someone that i dont like chocolates for my birthday is NOT being incredibly insensitive or rude.
i would like to include the disclamer: i am not sensitive to the point of having psychic powers or being able to differentiate vagueness from "yes im talking about you".
5. my weakness is fashion. and hamsters. and shopping.
ok, needs not much elaboration. ahhh i got my vest finally today! :D
6. i dont like soft toys
7. i dont like perishable things for presents
that means FOOD and FLOWERS (more than 1 is bad).
8. i dont really fancy electronic and high-tech gadgets
some people like my sister believes in changing her handphones like underwear but i dont care. sometimes i feel that people are happier than i am, that i own a 5mega-pixel phone. of course, i cry for each camera-phone lost or destroyed--not coz i lost the high-tech phone, but i cry for the pictures and memories in them.
9. i have soft spots for sincerity and originality.
i always admire people for these 2 traits. i dont admire a person because she looks fashionable and like everyone else, but only if there is something unique (and original) in that person. thats why i like cory kennedy.
i am touched by sincerity as how a person genuinely cares for me, feeds me, buys something i like even though it was a passing comment. i can list a few people whom i know are very genuine people but hahhaha, shy.
i like home-cooked food, instead of eating out. i think fast-food leaks of sincerity at times. i think pastamania is getting worse.
i love mummy more than daddy. she slogs off her butt to give me $10, but it sure beats the $10 that my dad could give me. you know what i mean?
10. i cant stand hypocrisy
like the guy who had a tree stump in the eye but told his friend, hey you got a twig in your eye? i cant stand it when hypocrites scold me especially.
action out your words. then you deserve my reciprocation.
i cant stand it, those times that my sister criticize me of shopping too much or blahblahblah. coz she borrows my stuff in the end. just coz. blahblahblah.
till now i havent been a hypocrite i think. argh that's the very dangerous part about writing hypocrisy, for who knows, i may be scolding myself.
OKKKK that is all i have to say now. deary me, i dont want to get mediocre results for exams again.
sorry R. i must have disappointed you.
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